The magic button is to acknowledge the fact that you are probably getting divorced. Done. You need to prepare yourself for this outcome. Done. You also need to be prepared for a reconciliation. What?! Explain seeming contradiction, of finality of end-game, please. That's why it's called 'lovingly' detach. Think thru where, what, how, when and why your life will be if divorced. Also done.
Thanks.
End Hijack.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
