Betheman, I understand about the card from your waw. My MIL gave me a birthday card like that just 3 weeks after the bomb. A day after I mentioned my wifes EA friend to my MIL she sent me a birthday card that told me to find a therapist because she could not be my therapist. Nice huh? I trashed that card when I decided my MIL could not be objective about her own daughters infidelity. Happy birthday man!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final