RobX - I am detaching. Really. Getting pissed at the card was a step for me. Think about it - a few weeks ago I would have focused on the "only time will tell" part and saw hope in that. I would have hoped for anything from her today - and now I don't.
A while ago I was dreading the move out day, now I am almost looking forward to it. To the tease being gone.
I have no interest in dating right now, but am moving on in other ways. I have not started legal stuff and I have my reasons why. I am not an idiot. I would say divorce is a 90% chance and I will come out of it fine.
Every day I get a little stronger and a little less worried and a little less concerned about busting my divorce. I am becoming whole as my wife says.
