Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Hi D,
I'm sorry you found something that hurt. I guess I feel that I'd rather know the "truth" or what's really going on and be hurt than have the wool pulled over my eyes, find out later(maybe) and feel hurt and stupid.

If H cheats again then personally I'm not sure ai can stand for the marriage anymore. I don't think it sets a good example for the girls. H didn't physically cheat until after he moved out and he felt the marriage was over..the EA is something I'm not sure he grasps-at least how it hurts and can lead a person away from his/her spouse...I don't think H would physcially cheat while living at home but I want to know if an EA starts...right now it seems the HS FB friend is the one starting the texts and H is just responding...I'm OK with that. If the HS FB friend becomes more of an issue I'll figure out what I need to do or say.

I think my H is pretty vulnerable right now. He pokes his head out of the tunnel a bit more frequently..but he is still dealing with a lot mentally, I think. He's kind of like my third child at times...