Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I just finished skimming DivorceBusting. I am thinking about the fact that results may take time to show up. I am thinking about my January deadline.

So I wonder if this: IF I DON'T see changes in his behavior by January then I will speak with the action of filing for D.

IF I DO see changes between now and January, then....postpone?But what changes am I looking for? How will I know if he is coming around? What signs will he give me? Will he just suddenly tell me out of the blue that he wants to come home? I don't know what I am looking for all of a sudden.

I think I will ask the forum in Piecing or WAS...