Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

So if your W is unhappy while there, why not think it has to do with the fact that she is regretting her decision and missing her family? Meaning, bad=good? I know this can't account for everything. And just because people feel that way doesn't mean they are going to suddenly change.

When my WH is joking around with me while here, I do not think it is bad. I think it's bad when he shows up already in a good mood (like he got LAID that morning? barf)and leaves kind of like he is excited to go. He was excited when he arrived and left on Saturday after taking our son to the OW. So that was BAD.