It's obvious he has only his own self-interests at heart -- that's why he's upset, for himself, not the kids.

Karen, you've done well not letting his spew get to you. Continue to stay calm and stand your ground. You are absolutely in the right here.

Hugs and blessings.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.