I need help in the biggest way. I feel so helpless

[Ready2Change]

What you've told me is what I've read that I SHOULD do but it's hard for me because it doesn't feel right.

Everything you need to do is COUNTER INTUITIVE and goes against YOUR natural instinct.

I'm sure many understand how that feels.

We all know how that feels. That is why we are here supporting you now. You have a choice to continue doing what IS NOT WORKING, or change and do THE RIGHT THING that feels uncomfortable.

Anyone on the outside looking in would think things are fine and we're just one happy family.

Are you happy? It is very important to do things that make make YOU happy. There is a great story about owning your own happiness in this book:
The Mastery of Love
I highly recommend reading it.

I ignored him ... and he squeezed the back of my neck and stroked my hair.

Did ignoring him work?!!?!?!? Keep doing more of what works! Rejecting him. Works. It is counter intuitive.

I just don't get it....but I just don't understand it.

That is why you need to listen to us UNTIL you GET IT.

Make positive changes in YOU without focusing on H.

People want what they can't have. Look at yourself. What do you want? You want the man who rejected you. Reject him. He will want you. Move away from him.


Become the new sexy YOU. Put yourself out there and enjoy attention from Men. Keep your boundaries. If it feels uncomfortable, YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING.