NC, you know my D9's psychiatrist was saying the most important thing for AS kids with divorce is routine and trying to keep things the same as much as possible, and I know they have more problems with transitions than nt kids. Maybe their "lovies" help them to make the transition from house to house, and give them some extra security they need right now? I think the duplicate idea is great. I've been slowly doing that now as I can afford it, just their PE sneakers or anything that has gotten left over at their dad's.
