That is excellent news! I think you are right (as we both are discovering), we know our H's and the sitch's the best, and sometimes we may have to go outside the 'rules'. And if it doesn't work, we retreat. But luckily for both of us, yesterday, it did work! =)
What a great conversation you two had last night. It was really based on mutual understanding and respect. Love it! =) The fact that he wants to change and wants you to see the changes in him, speaks loudy. But yes, I would agree with you, I think you are ready to move past the LRT. LRT is to bring H back to be marriage table, and he seems to be there. Now you will just have to continue to practice what you've learned (respect, letting go, etc) and start to build your R again. From what I hear, this rebuiliding process can take a long time, but it sounds like you are at the beginning of it & you have to start somewhere. So definitely keep your heart open to H and his steps, but I understand your reservations too. Hope you got the wonderful sleep you needed last night!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
