Need a WAW point of view

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I am confused now. I know what I want(I think). It's hard knowing our kids are going through this too. I can comprehend the thought of not reconciling at this point. I would like to but I guess in time the R will tell me which direction I should go. It's funny how we learn to improve yourselves after our spouse leaves. We become(in a Sense) what they have been looking for all this time but now they are searching elsewhere. They will only find the same situation with the next guy. They will try agian to mold them and be disappointed. I think ythat's why people really need to work on themselves and the R.