Advice in dealing with cake-eating behavior

[allyg8r]

Yes, he is on the lease and I can't change the locks b/c it's a rental. The lease ends at the end of Feb, so I'm tied to the house until then.

I don't have any close friends here - we moved to the area only a few months ago. He was quick to make friends (all co-workers), but it's taken me longer. I have started to build friendships, but I haven't confided in them about my M problems yet.

And believe me, I've thought about the fact that he might pull this crap again in the future. What if we had kids? Every day that goes by I get further and further away from wanting to reconcile. My family and best friend think I'm nuts for not walking away already.