Alot of my problem is that I hate conflict. I am not looking forward too see her reaction. In my first marriage , ex wife was very controling. While my D19 was growing up, my first wife would walk all over me, and I would let her and it would frustrate my present W that I would let her. Who knows maybe my present W will see this as a positive step for me for sticking up for myself.
Anybody else want to answer this? Anyone? Anyone?
OK, I'll take a stab. AC, your W does not respect you. Sounds like your 1st W had the same issue.
A woman will not (cannot) love a man she does not respect.
Take the reigns here (call it a 180) and LEAD. Take control.
Overcome your fear. Have fath. And just do it.
You will be surprised at what happens (we won't).
I think my work with this one is done. I dub thee Sir GIMA.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
