Hmmm he is on the lease? Legally he can be there unless he vacates for more than 30 days I think.
He is bullying you. Can you move out? Are you tied to a lease. Your right in the respect if you don't stand your ground he's gonna get worse.
That said, you need to talk about it with him, but not in the heat of the moment.
Or maybe you could start staying out and coming home to shower and see what he has to say. Do you have any place you could crash a couple nights a week. I wouldn't tell him what i was doing either.
Good for the Goose stuff, ya know!
Plus, honestly when people are as young as you and have no children.... (which adds a whole bunch of stresses to life)if your partner is treating you like this now..... what will he become later? You really need to think about that.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too