'' I had an awakening this morning"

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Alot of my problem is that I hate conflict. I am not looking forward too see her reaction.
In my first marriage , ex wife was very controling. While my D19 was growing up, my first wife would walk all over me, and I would let her and it would frustrate my present W that I would let her. Who knows maybe my present W will see this as a positive step for me for sticking up for myself.