I also agree with Coach. My H tried this tactic too. He would come home after work and stay through dinner then leave. We both knew it wasn't working. It was killing me to see him leave every night and it was just plain stupid. Things are MUCH better now that he just goes to his sisters, no stops home. If he wants to leave then he needs to leave. This is what D is like. No happy home a few hours a week. If he wants out he needs to get used to what 'out' is like.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month