I still don't think WAW should bring it up in a birthday card.
because you are still trying to control her. she can think, say, act, feel, anyway she wants. You are not responsible for her, she is.
You might not know you are doing it but that is controlling. Kinda like how Puppy points out you try to phrase your posts to get the answer you want. it's OK for adults to not agree.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
