He is going to stay with his brother 2 nights a week, but come home after work, have dinner with me and our daughter, and then leave when she goes to bed.
Why does he call the shots? He gets to "act" like a Dad and husband without the accountablity and responsiblity. How confusing is this for your daughter? How does this make you feel? What's the point of staying with his brother two nights a week? Is his brother married?
If you want your marriage to work then this isn't a healthy plan. You need to decide how you want to be treated. You just gave your husband a free pass to ask for whatever he wants with no consequences. Imagine your daughter as a grown woman telling you this story, what would you tell her?
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
