I'm with CG's stance on things. After more than a year and half of being seperated, Xw's affaris going on for who knows how long and 6 months of being D'd, my XW knows no other way to communicate other than hate, blame, angst, and anger.
I on the other hand, don't care anymore. I know I'm not at full fault. And I know that rehashing the past is pointless.
So we don't speak. Period.
the longer you try and mindread your spouse, the more stuck you'll be for a longer duration of time. Give it up, you can't read a mind that can't read it's self.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11