NCB,

I have always stated to you that you let far too much of what your Xw does enrage you. That said, I emplore you to do something to take your focus off what she does. Study up on kids and how to handle and nurture them through the process and effects of divorce, NOW.

First off, they are not all that old, and your S8 if I remember correctly is much like my S12 who's emotional and mental age can vary with the change of wind speed, right?

Even without a broken family factored in, all kids grow out of thier phase with toys at their own pace, some never do and become avid collectors. wink

Seriously, there are plenty of resources on-line, start there. I give myself refreshers from time to time even being the child of divorced family. Take the 'fight' away from them.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11