Need a WAW point of view

[praying_in_GA]

Thanks CG My biggest downfall is over analyzing everything. I try to make sense of every action she takes.
I have been working on myself and other people have noticed. I guess that's why I'm trying to get some reaction from my WAW.
I just have to think about the castle and picnic analogy.
I have that written on my chalk board in the kitchen, along with Patience.

Another Q- If my W was so gung ho on working on the marriage 6 months ago and I didn't know what she was doing, why is she's taking this approach now that I know our issues?

Could she just need time alone to figure it out?

I know what we need now. ugh.

Everything you said sounds just like me. My H has been 'working on his feelings' for two years now but just informed me when about the truth when he left. I have also changed and others have noticed but there is still the coldness between us. We need to join over-analyzers anonymous!

Anyway, just hang in there and keep doing for you. You can only control your life. If she comes back YAY! If she doesn't someone out there will see the amazing person you are/are becoming.