Thanks CG My biggest downfall is over analyzing everything. I try to make sense of every action she takes.
I have been working on myself and other people have noticed. I guess that's why I'm trying to get some reaction from my WAW.
I just have to think about the castle and picnic analogy.
I have that written on my chalk board in the kitchen, along with Patience.

Another Q- If my W was so gung ho on working on the marriage 6 months ago and I didn't know what she was doing, why is she's taking this approach now that I know our issues?

Could she just need time alone to figure it out?

I know what we need now. ugh.

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