Im new to your sitch but I've been reading up on your ups and downs. Mine have been similar. After I basically went dark on her she's recently texted me to see if I wanted some dinner she cooked. (she moved out after threatening to for a couple months only after I forced her to) After I said no thank you she found a reason to drop food off anyway as my older son was over visiting. She got Upset because my two sons, daughter in law and grandaughter were over on a planned dinner. She stated she felt ostracized. Then I ran into her at a grocery store a couple days later as I was leaving. She came up and gave me a hug and a kiss and said I looked great. Then she texted me to have a good day a couple days ago. Then nothing but silence and her insistence we are done. I think its all just part of the journey. I truly believe my W doesnt know what she really wants but her MLC has her so screwed up she cant think straight. Thats obviously what your W is going thru. Like everyone says when this DB journey started, strap yourself in because its a hell of a rollercoaster ride. As long as you focus on yourself and your child and maybe have a little less responding to her and contact w/her you should do a bit better. It drives me crazy but you cant go looking for hope in every tiny bit of contact or youre gonna go mad. Good luck.
