<<"You weren't there, and I made some stupid, stupid choices. And now you are back..." At the end of the convo he said he was crying b/c he was sad at what had happened to us but also b/c he was happy that I was 'me' again...>>
Wow...maybe I AM cynical but this reaks of manipulation to me..... Some who are more positive than I am may say that this is great he is finally opening up....showing his emotions...
So you were not your old self? That is why he cheated on you how many times? I thought it was because you broke his dream to go to school or have a cow business or....
There was a mutual friend on this site who coined the phrase "Dan is broken".... Well he may be broken but he knows how to play his cards...I am glad you are way stronger today and don't buy into the cowdong that he is spewing...
Keep walking BBJ....don't worry that 5% that eludes you is not far off....you may be surpised.....it may actually all add up to 110%.
That is what you deserve...not someone who shifts the blame to you for his shortcomings....past and present.
