You are so right....as much as I miss him I rarely have any contact with him...I look at old pics and then I look at most recent wow what a difference....the old husband really is gone...this new person I do not know...and I have been gal...dont hardly cry about this anymore,I used to have thoughts of something we did together or wonder what he is doing,the pain and thoughts of him a few and in between these days....he knows he is always welcomed back home what harm is there in that....after me crying,begging and pleading as I did at first,in the 3 yrs.since then I have only told him he will always be welcomed home 2 times... Is this too much...Jerry had an affair with her 15 yrs. ago but after we reconciled on that affair I threw it in his face whenever we fought.I would love to detach some more I gues only with time?thanks for your advice
