It sounds to me that you are not sure enough of your H to think he won't repeat what he has done. You do not seem convinced that he is truly repentant either.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength