Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

[CountingCrows]

On Saturday, I told W "...I can tell you with absolute certainty that I cannot remain married to someone that would put another man ahead of their husband, regardless of the relationship." This was the closest thing I came to giving her a consequence of her decision. But I didn't set conditions of transparency or give her a time period to respond like I should have.

Can't tell you why I did it this way. Impatience, anger at her still continuing a R with OM even after I told her this, stupidity and ignorance on my part. No excuse. Guess I'll just buckle down and hang on for the ride.