I mean, to me, the Best news a mc can give us is that I have some crap to work on and improve b/c I only have effective control on me. If the mc were to say "sorry 25, you married a loser who'll never change..." THEN I'm stuck for real with no options b/c my spouse is the idiot & and I have NO control then. When I'm the problem or at least part of it, there is hope. Hope you all get this.
