LFA, I made enough cookies, you can surely have one . The conv with my MIL was....just too much honestly. I wasnt about to get into it with her or try to defend myself or badmouth her son. That would have been incredibly stupid. So I ended the call.
WMP, I looked in on your sitch. Love those lyrics! lol, ur D7 sounds like a very interesting little lady.
Sadgirl, Thats one of my main concerns ..I dont want to seem cold. Ive tried very hard to remain distant and friendly but he is obviously wanting some kind of communication. With as many msgs as he has sent in such a short time after none at all for 30 days , then 2 weeks then 10 days. Now, more in the past couple of days , then all the time since the nuclear warhead landed on my apt. My gut tells me he is about to pull back, and thats ok. If he doesnt, well, thats ok too. If the increased contact continues, Im willing and comfortable with replying once in a while, but as long as the OW is in the picture, Im not about to let him weasel his way back into my life, just so he can tear it apart again.
Still want to fly over there and just slap the hell out of him for being stupid. I would be afraid to touch her, but I could always whack her with my cane. =) , ok that rant is over .
