I'm hoping she dodesn't really know what she wants. I'd be prepared to work on it if she comes around, but I'm using this time to look after myself and build on my relationship with my son.
I booked him into a karate lesson tomorrow, and when I told him this afternoon, he was very excited. I found out that some family friends also take their kids there, and my son knows them. So I'm hoping he will enjoy it even more. I'm also doing my first lesson on Monday night. (oh, and I picked up my cpap machine, so I'm gonna see how that goes tonight)
I finally got my copy of DR today. Man, it really hits home. So many things in the book describe exactly what I am going through. I have already read the first 75 pages. It has given me hope, but the only thing i'm not sure about is does it still apply to WAS when they have already asked for a divorce, and are not willing to even try. As I was reading, I thought I would love for her to read it. Especially the parts about how people thing divorce is an easy way out and don't really consider the consequences of it. I know I can't give it to her, but I felt like calling her and saying "read this". Has any-one else experienced that ?
