You sound great! keep it up hon! many happy thoughts for you =) Listening is a big step, for any of us. I always was told I was a good listener, but wonder if I was with my H or if I fell into the habit of just hearing him and it not registering. Something for me to think about.
You need to stop stop stop telling ur h anything about what ur up to. Esp the atty thing. <3
Agree with other posters, H sounds paranoid sweety.