Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

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I hope that you are good and prepared to receive an answer that may not make you happy. I think that you are backing her into a corner by keeping this pressure up, and she might tell you no just to defy you.

I wouldnt ask questions like this, dont give her a chance to lie to you!

Im not sure what the right thing to do is, but Im worried that this might not work out so well for you... One thing that I can say is that you know that she takes meds that make her groggy and sleepy, right? Why would you call at bedtime? If you want to have a serious, productive conversation like this, you need to do it at a time when she is likely to(or be able to) respond.