what's up with all this "can't trust you" crap? I mean really even if it were an A, if he insists on tossing it into your face every chance then yes, there is no hope b/c he can't let go and move on, let alone forgive. Good grief, MOVE ON ALREADY! How long do you have to wear a hair shirt for your crimes against humanity? If you are so intolerable and your mortal sins so grave, then get the div and get out...
But if not,if maybe you are both flawed humans who need to learn a rarely taught skill--called forgiveness--then maybe there's hope. But the endless flailing has to stop. It's toxic.
Good luck, and by the way, the "secret" to forgiveness is giving it, which takes daily work sometimes. But by modeling it, maybe he'll learn to do it too. Then the scorecards can be tossed away and a truly fresh start can begin. OTherwise you are prolonging the inevitable I fear...just mho.
((( j )))
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