Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

[TrentC]

When I told her that I was changing the locks on the house, she attacked me for taking away the only chance for her to see s7 except at night after she got off work...a supervised visit on my terms only. I'm not at all trying to keep s7 from having a relationship, I relented and allow her over in the mornings.

If she ends up moving out, you work out a plan for her to be able to see your kid until you have some sort of formal custody agreement.

At what point to I demand a decision be made between him or me?

As soon as you're fed up with her canoodling with another man, albeit virtually.

I don't feel that I can use the loss of visits in the morning as a consequence for her decision to keep OM in her life. I don't want to use s7 as a pawn in this game.

S7 won't be a pawn; if she chooses to leave, then you two work out a plan so she can see him.

What's the other option. Choose to get rid of OM or I'll file for divorce?

Do you see any other way or her giving him up? Because it doesn't look good so far.