No, I think this is going too far. If she takes them she may try to use them as evidence of infidelity on your part. The idea is to let her assume what she wants without spelling things out exactly.
I agree.
Do you really want to win your wife back by deceiving her? There is one person on these forums who tried something similar; her husband called her bluff, and she ended up more miserable than before.
It's one thing to GAL and work on yourself and let things work out as they will; it's another to be deceitful. If it backfires, you do far more damage to your cause because she has good reason to believe that the work you are doing is shallow and manipulative.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
