SB,Give yourself some time each day to NOT think about it. Walk, exercise, bath, veg on couch, but once a day say "for this one hour, this issue is off the table out of my mind and I'm gonna do fo me:body, soul, mind, heart, whatever.

Hey, you say the word when the time comes and you just might be surprised how many of us will come to Ohio for ya!

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac