I just wanted to offer you a hug. I am in the same position. This Friday marks 1 month since he moved out. My H is also 'done' with our M. I am just taking it as slow as possible now.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month