Bim, that is so true. I hope I can settle into that outlook soon. I feel I am on the way there, but I will admit I still worry about what he thinks/feels/does a little too much.

I like your thoughts though!

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month