It is good to read you are in a good place right now (as far as your outlook). I hope for the best for you.
Thanks, PiGA.
Ya know what? When you are consumed with your M and your failures in the R, you lose sight of yourself. At least I did. Trying to work past the pain to accept what is and what will be caused me to realize that I better get back to liking myself. All I have been doing for the last 7 years is trying to convince my H that he should like me, want me, love me, believe me. A few days ago, I rededicated myself to God. To me, that means taking care of my health and well-being and listening. It has made a world of difference! I am a mother of 2 healthy, wonderful, beautiful boys. I have a nice, safe home and a secure job that will provide for us in the event that I have to take care of them on my own. Now, I am working on me. I have neglected myself for far too long. I've got a ways to go, but I am at peace.
I wish the same for all of you who still don't have it.
bim
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BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127
