Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
I think you are talking to him too much. He needs to miss you.


Any ideas on how I cut down on it?

He sees me three times a week so he can watch the kids while I work. He gets here at 6:15pm (right when I am leaving) and he leaves at 7:30am (about 5 min after I get home). He calls every night before bedtime to tell them goodnight and I call every night I work before bedtime so I can tell them goodnight.

Should I not answer the phone when he calls...just hand it straight to our daughter? Also, would he take this as me being mad at him?

(I feel like these are stupid questions)


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month