Originally Posted By: CityGirl
I find it stunning to this day that a WAS will bomb drop and then even entertain the thought of the LBS participating in the divorce as if it was a joint decision. If there was *one* thing I could ever fully understand that would be what I would choose.


Agreed, CG. It defies logic. But then, so does everything else a WAS does.

My WAW will have to have my cooperation. And she won’t get it.

No enabling. You want to destroy this marriage? It’s your barbeque. Put on an apron and start cookin’.

This puts the WAS in a very awkward and unexpected position. He/she had not planned on this.


H: 50
W: 48
Married 20 years
Bomb and separation: 9/12/09
A discovered 12/02/09
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