Bestraongforyoi, our family and friends know. The OW's mom knows. It has been going on for about a year or more, but he has had full access to OW since March when I kicked him out. I am also wondering if their affair will end before I file for D since it isn't fresh and new anymore.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004