I'm in your shoes. My H mentioned it a while ago. I'm a stay at home mom just because in my career I don't make enough to put two children in daycare. So we decided I'd stay home. Now that he's gone he's asking me to get a job. Well sorry buddy, I realize if this is permanent, obviously I will need to get a job. But until then, you left me, you walked out on me. I will get a job when I'm ready thank you very much.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14