I see "Normal" here, Gardner. You love her. You don't want to divorce her. But, but, but...considering her "horrendous" BS about you sexually abusing her...reconciliation MUST entail her winning you back. You have been dissed bigger than Dallas, my friend, and you are not going to be bellying up the bar for another shot of that. She will have to repair that breach of trust first.
Oh, I agree, I agree. I don't love her. I love who she used to be. AND still subscribe to the belief the she started to change when abusive Dad (virtually no contact for 30) years died 4/08.
No, I might - might- remain open to reconcililiation, but I will be pursued; there is nothing and no one in her that I care to be around, let alone pursue.. And I would have to see serious evidence of attempted self-reflection, self-healing and sincere contrition before even considering to consider, as I like to put it.
Thanks, hope you're feeling better. Saw Coaches photo in the .alt today and before even looking at his face (not that I know what he looks like), I saw the drum kit and immediately said, "Coach!"
Feel better. You and your sweetie are rare, giving gems.
Last edited by Gardener; 11/17/0910:59 PM.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
