Kalni- Thanks for posting this. My heart is trying to deal with my own emotional response to being lied to over and over.
This raises two great questions ... how does one express grief in a healthy way? Since repression of the grief leads to all sorts of things that, ironically, are what our MLC spouses have done.
Secondly, if forgiveness is not a cognitive moment, but a process ... how do we stay on that path? It seems easy to think I've forgiven what has happened, but my heart is sneaky that way.
