Do not announce this ahead of time. Just show up, pillow and personal effects in hand, and when she asks you WTF you think you're doing (and she will), say "I have decided that I prefer this house, and sleeping in my own bed. I've done nothing wrong, and I should have never left."That's it.
YUP. Move back in when she is gone if at all possible.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
