Also read Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy if you have not already. Get ready for possibly a long ride as well. Hang in there. You can do it. You are just getting started.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...