I am struggling right now, thinking if I should take the next step. I found this thru someone else's (Chel's) link about MLC. I thought I'd post here in case someone finds it helpful.
It's titled :Steps Toward Reconciliation/Healing Trauma HealingOlga Botcharova (2001) Adaptations by Nancy Good Sider With further adaptations by K-R Stumpf
Injury *Shock *Pain *Denial
Realization of Loss *Denial Continues
Mourning & Expressing Grief
Accepting Loss & Confronting Fears
Re-humanize: "Why Them" *Recognizing Common humanity: Self in Other
Moving Beyond Tolerance *Finding Purpose, Survivor's Mission Choice to Forgive: Commitment to Take Risks *Re-member *Healing: Internal Process
"Re-Writing" History, Negotiating Solutions and Joint Planning *Revising Story *Recognize Mutual Responsibilities *Apology, Repentance *Finding Purpose, Sense and Meaning in Suffering
Establishing Justice That Restores
Moving Toward Reconciliation and Trauma-based Conflict Transformation
