I was very much the giver--so much that I nearly lost myself--married to a narcissistic taker. But you see, he left me for an old gf who was very much a taker--I know a lot about her because early in our relationship, he went on and on about how horrible the relationship with her had been, how she used him, how she manipulated him....
so what's up with that?!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012