Possibly, not all up to you. Face the reality of this.
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So that’s why I am here. I know I’ve been acting needy and have cried. I sometimes cannot get out of bed and I do keep asking him what’s wrong with me?
That is not attractive. Imagine how that looks to him. First 180, you are up and busy at 6:00 am. BTW, there is nothing wrong with you. But you need to TCB (Take Care of Business).
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And what I can do to make him want me?
Make yourself irresistable. Start by taking care of yourself - emotionally, spirtually, physically and mentally. Right now leave him alone.
You need to get strong enough to set and enforce boundaries concerning the OW. So starting right now - love yourself. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
